.. the day before..
< at pioneer >
*surprise bouquet from jen & jeff ! thanks !
<Actual Day>
.. 4.15am ..
*ugly..having cup noodles at 4.15am in the morning !
*get out guys, i need to change !
*my dad is so relax !
.. 6.30am ..
– G
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after koh samui..
woke up after my nap, brush teeth, wash face and started crying..
kervin immediately came over to my side.
‘minying, what’s wrong?’
‘dont you miss home? i miss home.. i miss mummy, miss dadddy, miss everyone at home. i miss my bed. i miss miss home’ – i replied between sobs.
‘come, lets go home now. pack ur stuff and we go home okie?’
cool myself down and felt that it’s a bad idea. i miss home but doesn’t mean i can just pack up my stuff and move back to pioneer. i am mrs chua !
what abt kervin? what will his parents think?
i know he doesnt mind but i felt that i shouldnt..
how come no one told me abt this?! i heard alot of marriage advise but nothing abt ‘leaving home’ .. no one ever told me how hard it is to leave home and have a family of my own.
kervin & i changed and went back pioneer for dinner.
everyone know that i cried and are extra-sweet to me. k saw tears in their eyes when i told my family abt koh samui.
everyone say singapore is so small and i am just a few mrt stops away from home. but what they didnt say to me was… how different it would be..
not waking up to seeing my parents, not having to wait for bathroom, not being there, not knowing what’s going on in their everyday life, not living with a noisy but happy family. i felt like i’m missing out alot.
i love kervin with my life, i love living with him, i love waking up beside him, i love doing house chore and falling aslp while chit-chatting..
and i miss my family.
(even my bears miss home)
our wedding package entitled us to 1 night stay at d bridal suite. the extension is priced at $550++ per night.
we decided to extend our stay at Grand Park but in their normal room.
guess what?
Grand Park auto upgrade us ! which means GP let us stay for another night in their bridal suite !
woohoo ! i paid $180 but got myself a $550+ room. π
*ya ! i tried the toilet bidet ! weird..
*i kept those that are more meaningful to me.
*never leave home without the bear
thanks Jen for IB me ! π
– G
original version:
I, Kervin Chua, solemnly swear that:
– I will buy fried bee hoon with fish cake & chix wing for Minying every sat morning
– I will not nag at Minying if she bites her nail
– I will not nag at Minying if she dirty the dining table after meal
– I will not force Minying to sort out the trash for recycling purposes
– I will allow Minying to on the air-con whenever she wants to
– I will bath whenever she told me to
– I will cook porridge for her when sheβs sick
– I will bring her to whenever she wants to go
– I will not force her to overcome her fear for insects
– I will always love Minying..
revised:
I, Kervin Chua, solemnly swear that:
– I will endeavor to provide my beloved wife, Minying with her favorite breakfast of bee hoon with fish cake & chicken wing every Saturday morning.
– I will chide Minying lovingly (not nag) and provide her with her favorite snacks so that she doesn’t have to chew on her nails.
– I will clear up the dining table Minying dirtied during meal with nothing but loving words.
– I will take it upon myself to sort out the trash for recycling purposes and leave Minying alone and her hands soft like silk.
– I will help Minying to switch on the air-con whenever she wants to so that she will always have a restful night of good sleep and sweet dreams.
– I will listen to my beloved wife and bath whenever she tells me to, even if Im in the midst of my favourite TV program.
– I will learn to cook delicious porridge and shower Minying with loads of TLC during times of sickness to nurse her back to health.
– I will accompany Minying to the places she wants to go and enjoy exploring new boundaries together.
– I will accept Minying’s fear for insects and like a man should, risk everything to protect her from them.
– I will use nothing short of my whole life to treasure and love this lady – by standing strong to the wedding vows we undertook, putting her needs above all others and holding her hands firmly from now on to embrace the start of our new life journey together..
Thank YOU Sarah for the amended version. the bride love it ! π
– G
Yingβs wedding
Gate Crushing Games
1. Sour Sweet Bitter Spicy
Sour- green lemon + sour plum juice
Sweet- marshmallow coated with sugar syrup, honey and colourful rice crisp
Bitter- Herbal leaves + bitter gourd
Spicy- Brush your teeth with wasabi (x 3 pax)
– Bread with chilli padi paste (x 3 pax)
Ying will provide the questions for sister to ask Groom.
2. Yoga poses
All brothers and groom are to do 3-4 Yoga pose for the camera.
3. Flour Game
Round 1- Brothers to blow ping pong balls away
Round 2- Groom to use his mouth to look for house keys that are wrap in black plastic bags.
4. Song + Dance
All brothers and groom are to follow the MTV and do a song + dance
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ScIpxucdmo0
5. Contract
Ying to provide a contract for Groom to sign.
Shopping List
1. Green lemon
2. Sour plum
3. Herbal leaves
4. Bitter gourd
5. Marshmallow
6. Wasabi paste
7. Bread
8. Chili padi
9. Flour
10. Ping pong balls
11. Trash Bag (Jen)
12. Small microphone (Jorin)
13. Small cups
14. Colorful rice crisp (Minhui)
15. 3 toothbrush (Minhui)
Note: Jen to look for the Yoga poses and suitable song + dance.
– G