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what is love?

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love. musta everyone’s fav word.

we live, we work, we eat.. but everyone needs love.
love comes in many form – family, frds and of coz boy-girl.

i always believe at  the end of the day, everyone wants the same thing outta life – a place where you belong, someone loves u or simply a family. even my fav disney chara – stitch, he wants to belong.

as for me, life is a simple cycle – from being a kid to an adult to having ur own kids.

what is love?

here goes:
what’s love in groove language? there are many kinds of love.. but generally love is a feeling, towards someone. love hv all d right / wrong ingredients, happy, sad, jealous, angry, whine, hope, faith, u wish u were with d person all d time.. on top of that, the person is someone u want to protect/ dote, u try ur best to make him happy, smts wishin u could take away his problem.. plus a healthy dose of understanding, respect, common goals..smts love & stupidly is a thin fine line. smts you screw up coz u love (or care) someone too much, and love make u do stupid things..

that’s mine.

pumkin’s theory is straightforward – someone who love u like you’re the very world to him. that’s him. simple, without a doubt. its seems a little naive, but smts, that’s all we need… coz, i love u. and, that’s enough.

last – i love this quote from one of my books ‘but love wasnt abt sacrifice, and it wasnt abt fallin short of someone’s expectations. by definition, love made u better den good enough; it defined perfection to include your traits, instead of excluding them‘

– G

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waste time

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u might as well stab me to death..

e-biz. this module is generating marjor whine from most students.

intensive was a bitch.

this week cls, he re-teach chp 1 – 5, which is what we suffered thru intensive. all for next week 20% MCQ quiz.

WTH??

seriously.
some unforgiveable students let out groan in cls, some slept, i belonged to the half-listenin-half-daydream gp.

to sit thru the exact same material while i hv a major assignment waiting.. *tsk tsk

when is d student feedback?

no assingment party tonite, its time to slp..
– G

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major whine

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500th entry & its gotta be a major whine!
I.Left.My.Purse in office again!
loser me walk back office for it.
super whiney groove.
*grrrrrrr
**stay away, i might bite. 😀

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having groove & ice-kacang

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he asked and i say yes !
so, here we are,
on a scorching hot sunday late morning / afternoon

a walk from harbourfront to hortpark.
insane. i know !

he didnt warn me abt the endless stairs..hmpf !
at least he told me to wear comfortable shoes !

happy mood.
breakfast – toast box & all.

sweating like mad.

while i still look calm & cool.
yeap, somehow.. i dont sweat much?!

spot this fallen white leaf.

kill me?

i love lookin at the blue blue sky

step step step.

more of my ‘fav stairs’

okie. i promise cruise in june.. *whisper – depends on my schedule.

fly awayhappy pumpkin !heard nice music coming from this church.
w-o-w

different view of the henderson wave

his turn to pose.

here the wave ! weeee..

am i dragging my feet?

leads to carpark 1. sound familiar? pumpkin ! 😀

on ur mark, get set, go !

more walking

i think this is after the ‘energizer-dance’

watch-out!

pumpkin !

decide, decide

marvel at the awesome bridge

short cut.
pumpkin said – for pple who need to go toilet, urgent.
funny.  🙂

one of my happy-shots
trust. me.
i was grumpy !

his space shipfinally ! hort park !

pretty wooden stairs

this little flowers capture my attention.

*grrrrrrr
i said – i was grumpy !
hahaha !

ice-kacang after the whole park adventure.

happy days 😉

note:
thanks pumpkin for being the camera man, htc is awesome !
thanks for the de-stress sunday adventure !

– G

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another. school-related. entry

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‘its not being selfish, its why a person expect other pple’s help when she herself din help herself enough’

realised my entries are mostly school-related. well, my life is pretty much centre around school.

with studying, everything else take a little backseat.

naturally, this entry is regarding school.

first sem – easy peasy

second sem – assignments !
its stressful.
endless research, coping with the assignments, took awhile to getting used to reading journals, even referencing was a tough affair. i had no one to ask or rather, i understand everyone was busy. afterall, this is bachelor level and being an adult, i shldnt rely purely on spoon-fed.

and, i learn the hard way in this sem .. never to rely on anyone but myself.

at the end of the day, no one will share their assignments / notes with me.. only me. naive enough to send out my assignments / exam notes to others tinkin others will rtn the favour. seriously. what was i thinkin? *self roll eyes

this is my third sem.
school is still busy. (okie, but i’m blogging !)

and i make up my mind to be a little selfish this sem. i don’t see why others could be selfish and i cant.

i guess it’s a struggle smts.. to be myself and not to be myself.
hand to heart. i have done my part as a good friend, a good person.
if pple around me not gotta wake up their idea and work their ass off like i do.
good luck to them.
i’m not gotta go the extra mile for them.

‘give a man a fish and u feed him today, teach a man to fish & he’s fed for life’

– G

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5

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“just when you think u’ve got your life by the reins, that’s when its most likely to run away with you”
– a book

in groove’s language – shit happens!

i dunno about you but i preferred a simple, stable life.
so.. what’s d story behind this entry?

wed
groove doing her homework. trying to figure what is SGNIC ..

“according to you..” my phone rang.

i pick up and goes ‘kor ! why eh?’

“there’s a earthquake in china. Do you know where mum & dad are?”

i think the entire conversation took less den 5 mins.. finding out where they are, are they safe? they are safe, of coz !
but those 5 min were the longest 5 min in my life.
i was being reminded how .. short life is.
.. and its smt totally beyond my control.

i talk to my family often but i don’t deny i have been busy with school.. aka less talk time for family.. but just like everyone else, i hv 24 hrs a day. and yes, i’m gotta use it wisely..

haha ! this probably explain why i don’t waste time toking abt bimbo topics on so-and-so fail the module, or gossip abt so-and-so. sorry to say tat.. i don’t care abt so-and-so.

conclude?

life is short.
i want my parents home safe & sound.
a deadline is a deadline..

– G

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what’s a ..?

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part 2.
the movie: date night.

okie, this is gotta make me super-bimbo.

was wonderin shld i blog abt not-so-nice stuff abt myself den i tot.. why not? it is me and yeap, its really smt i dunno.
and its okie as long as i’m willing to learn.

laugh if you want to.
i laugh at myself too. how helpless i am when it comes to techy stuff.
at very least i got the right attitude.

in the movie, tina fey told the husband. she gotta ask him smt, can he pls don’t judge her? she went on to ask what’s a flashdrive? for the record, i do know what’s a flashdrive but my issue is… Free Local Data Bundle1 (Up to 7.2Mbps) 12 GB Excess data usage capped at $30

huh?!?!?!
in english..?
i need a translator!

google it. (see, at least i know how to goggle it!)
read on a forum forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/showthread.php?t=2639271
someone had d same exact qns as i do. he / she hv no idea what the hell that was. some helpful & nice pple replied. well, just like everything else, there are not-so-nice pple out there who goes ‘how come you sign up without knowing??’

okie lor. i happened to sign up without knowing too.
and? sue me. whats the big deal.

yes. i’m not shy to admit i’m not so good with IT-stuff. (probably explain why this blog’s gallery not working as it shld be..)

i sucks at IT stuff, and some pple don’t even noe how to fry an egg?
i think at the end of the day, yeap, everyone sucks at something theory.
and you know what?
it is okie.

if i’m someone who know it alls, who have the answers to everything in life, who’s better den everyone else.. i don’t need anyone, family / frds.
now, that’s a scary tot.

last. lucky me to have smart pple ard me ! 😀
leave my ‘thinkin’ to them.
*wink

– groove: lost in cyberspace

note: pumpkin, thank you for your patience.

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unrelated entries

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my parents are outta town.
9 days @ china.

i miss them.

told them to ‘stick close to the tour group and be careful.’
yes, they are not kids.. but they are my parents ! 🙂

and say hello to my babysitter aka kor !
he called jie & me just wanna make sure we had our dinner. hehe

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guys !
listen up !

for some strange reasons.. this particular action from men irked me.

*drum roll

rest your precious arm on your gf / spouse shoulder.

what? your arm is too heavy?
or suddenly ur gf became your arm-supporter?

what’s next?
the gf to carry your bag for you?

durh.
okie. i dunno. i just don’t like it and i cant help staring if i spot a man doing that to the gf / wife. it just… irritated me.

hahahh !
this is so funny !

i was whining to guy abt my day.. abt my ‘needy’ frds & stuff & i mentioned abt the ‘rest your arm on your gf kinda tinky’

guy goes – i used to do that to you !
he did? wow !
thanks eh !
how come i don’t remember?! being a arm-supporter!

haha ! okie, maybe that why i dislike it ! coz i was being treated as the arm-supporter !
guy gave me the truth – coz of my height meh. just nice for him to rest his arm.

couldnt stop laughing when he told me.. 😀
hehe

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movie – date night

talk abt the movie first. its nice & funny. pls catch it.

okie, in the movie, the couple hv been together for years and everyday becomes a routine.

hmm. what abt me?

it take a lot to maintain a relationship, u noe keep each other happy, comfort, assurance, effort.. the works.

smts, i doubt my own ability… could i sustain a relationship? how d hell do i noe whether i’m doing the right / wrong things.. what if i put in 101% but i cant stop pple from changing all the time. you know what i’m trying to say? things are beyond us..

and my conclusion is – im not too sure i can make others happy all the time BUT i can make MYSELF happy all the time. and that’s impt.

be happy, always

– G

duh. was i really the arm-supporter? hahaa !

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triple three steps

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i love my ethics class !
it’s unlike any other modules.

basic rule in being human. but, well, we could all do with a little reminder sometimes..

let me write this in my lecturer’s words.

step 1:
are you able to slp at night?

step 2:
headlines.
can you live with it if ‘it’ appear in tomorrow’s headline

step 3:
children.
will you be able to answer your children someday?
‘daddy daddy (or mummy) WHY?’

as for myself, i hope these triple three steps will always walk with me.

‘ as long as you live it honestly. do what you want’

– G

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results

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opps.. !
forgot to blog abt my results !

*giggle

logistics mgmt – 61 / 100
busines ethics and governance – 67 / 100
international marketing – 72 / 100

not bad, at least to me.
my motto – pass aka 50 outta 100

5 modules to go.
😀

work hard minying !