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what number?

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the scenario:

jie at a bus stop. noticed a blind old uncle.
whenever a bus stopped, the uncle will shout at the driver ‘what bus number?’

jie noticed it and wondered ‘how come nobody at the bus stop help the uncle?! what wrong with these pple?”

another bus approach.
jie goes ‘erm, the bus is 93’
uncle replied ‘oh, 93. my bus. where’s the bus?’

uncle walked towards the bus.

mm.. how come? if i were jie, i will have approach the uncle too and ask ‘uncle, what bus are you waiting for? i’ll tell you when its here’
even if my bus is here, i will instruct the person beside me to take care of uncle. but chances are, i will wait with uncle. its a responsibilities. yes, even if i am late for my appt, i will choose to wait with uncle.

what’s wrong with these pple? how could you just ignore someone in need of help? i cant. i find it hard to turn my back. i sorta admired ppl who can. how do you do that? be so cold abt it. it beyond me. G.

eh. i loved this sentence – although the law say tat no one is responsible for anyone else, helping someone who needs it is the right thing to do.

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its free.. if you dare to ask

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dinner with jie / kor

part 1:
jie noticed a lady lookin at her at the bus stop and the lady does not look ‘very right’
the lady approached jie “can you gimme 50 cents?”
jie gave her.

kor laughed at jie. “what? you worried the lady will stab u if you dont give her 50 cents?”

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part 2:
kor alighted the bus. walked home and noticed a man looking at him.

“bro, do you have $2?”
“what for?”
“i wanna buy drink eh, bro”

kor gave hm 2 bucks.

“thanks bro, whats your contact eh? i return you the monies”
“no need”
“thanks bro”

there no part 3… coz part 3 will be ME writing my story. i dont have any story yet. i hope it remain that way. G.

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white lies

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liar, liar, pants on fire.

BUT, lies are unavoidable.
we are all liars, each and every one of us, including me. of coz lah, what? u think i’m a saint?!
there’s a difference between bein nice and saint. fyi – i am nice but not a saint.
of coz a differences bet white lies and a lie.

white lies – its common, but doesnt mean its acceptable.

i dont mind being the liar but i dont wanna be the one who being lie at. nobody wants to !
but i understand the logic behind white lies = to avoid hurting someone, to avoid the truth, to spare someone the agony. ..whatever the reason  – dont get caught ! haha !

for me, i try to be as honest as i can but white lies are necessity, just like omission of info are necessity as well. fyi – ommission of info donest constitute to lies. hehe.

G.

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home away from home

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somewhere in the east.

-i am allowed to invite myself over without the owner at home.
-i am allowed to open the wardrobe – pick the towel i liked, shorts and tee and pop myself into the shower.
-i am gettin my own toothbrush (soon) and there’s a bed named after me.
-i have been at my second home for the past 3 weekend.
– i am allowed to tuck myself in while the owner shower.
– i am allowed to use the owner’s laptop.

*gasp !

jen’s home.
we’re not les lah, you have to know both of us to understand our friendship.

mm, come to think of it – we grown closer this year through the ups and downs in life. she still received daily mornin sms from me. lucky girl. Jen said – we didnt grow closer… we have always be close. haha ! i beg to differ – we grow closer coz we seen the growth in each other. okie fine, the growth in me keke )

on a lighter note:
she teachin me hokkien.
my first three words – cucumber / gentleman / soap – all ends with ‘boon’
i am getting confused.

help ! G.

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the hossan leong show

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DSC00723the tixs.DSC00725the – i – dunno – what – you – call – this. can i named it clapper? or a device designed to give you a monster headache?!

my little tots:
i like hossan leong from sing dollars, so tot of catchin his own hossan leong show. nearly leap on my table when mr lee said he bring me to the show! well, tat bcoz i got him a game (BIA) hehe ! pleasantly surprised when he suggest  catching the show.

anyway, there we are – all set to laugh our head off, except it wasnt that entertaining. i wont say tat it a awful show but it wasnt fantastic.

okie, there you go. nice-y me got no other comments.

G.

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stop, think, act

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okie, this is from my book – secrets she left behind.
‘stop, think, act’ is the advise from a mother to her son.

three basic words.

but are they really basic when you link them together?
how often does we do that – stop, think, act.

two things that control me (let tok abt me, since its my blog)
heart – how you feel, we’re talkin abt emotions.
head – when you remove all emotions and look at the big picture, talkin abt logical, common sense.

which one am i? it depends on situation.
i can be cold when i dish out advises to others, without considerin how others ppl felt.
i can be mean when it necessary.
i can even be lame in my response when i dont feel like answerin your qn. 🙂

but i cant say i cut myself out completely from feeling.
i’m loaded with empathy.
i am soft-hearted.
i can even be fairy godmother ! haha !

how /when does one draw the line?
of coz, man are better at drawin line den woman.
do i wanna be a man and be so practical abt things / issues that i lost my sense of empathy.

how terrible it will be when one ignore feelin and live life as it is, just to avoid being hurt / disappointment.
shldnt one take chances in life, afterall you only live once?

do you need a conclusion? sure, im good at it !

*drum roll

conclusion:
i found myself leaning towards  ‘stop, think, act’ instead of following my feelings blindly. perhaps it a sign of maturity, a sign of being responsible for my own action. i have no idea.

let me sum it up – stop, think and act with your heart in it.
safe bet.

G.

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tears

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i’m gotta break this into several parts:

Part 1: crybaby
kor called me that smts.

i cry when i’m in pain, i cry when i’m upset, i cry when i’m frustrated. haha !

Part 2: refuse to cry
i can tell u too when i dont cry.

and this kind of refusal to cry is heartbreaking to others –
when i am sad, when i know that crying doesnt helps.

i dislike crying, when i know it gotta make me look weak or to gain sympathy. oh pls, i take gamemanship anyday, just dont give me the ‘dear-are-you-okie-look’ it tiring for me to assured you i am fine.

Part 3: cry when you’re touched.
you know recently i read this ‘ tentative contact. believed not in divine salvation but in the proposition tat we poor mortals are fully capable of savin ourselves, if conditions and inclinations are right, and the evidence of this potential is found in the smallest of gestures’

i agreed. sometimes it d smallest of gestures that touched me. just like the simple coffee + biscuit my dad made for me at 6.30am.

part 4: summary
tears are a form of expressing your emotion. just like laughter.
but there’s where the similarities end.
tears go deeper, something that you cried abt, sad or happiness – i think are things that you remember for a long time. whatever it is, the person or occasion matters to generate tears, probably the reason why i dislike when others cry for me.

do i remember my last tears?
no.
coz i dont believe in keeping negative memories.
take what’s good with you, look back in laughter and not in pain.

part 4(A): revised summary
laughter is equally impt. stupid things that you did, silly mistakes, dumbo error, whether it laughin at a joke, at yourself, it pulls you closer to the other party.

do i remember my last laugh?
yes.
just. over a bag of cheezels with jie / kor
teasing each other, stupid jokes, laughed abt life.

G.

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ahhh !!

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jen – lets do something crazy before your school starts.

i’m game.

but we could not think of anythink. oh, please dont mistaken us. there were items in our crazy-list. but we arent doing any of those.

the crazy think i did was hop over to jen’s place without any extra clothes.
the crazy think i did was waited for her like 3 hrs while she out with her frds. make myself comfortable on her sofa and read my book.
the next crazy thing we did was slp at 4am woke up at 1pm. she woke up at 3pm. haha !
the last crazy thing we did was decided to go tioman in jan. i need to go a beach resort every jan, being it my bdae mth and a reward for myself for the hard work. i like startin the year with a beach-y resort, just doing nothing. thats my idea of life.

ahh.
yes, i loved doing silly things, make life interesting.

G.

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right sorta girl

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situation
realised a restaurant short-charge you for some food.
what will you do?

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i will point it out to the staff and asked to be charge. this goes without thinking. dumb, yes. thank you.

reason:
its the right thing to do.

percentage of it happening
0%.
coz i dont check my bill. i have no idea if i’m being overcharge or smt. hehe

G.