what are you gotta do if i choke on the fish bone? other den askin me ‘r u okie?’
‘pray for u?’
haha !
i go on to state that he gotta finish the meal, ask for complimentary dinner (coz it the restaurant’s fault) ask for free vouchers and bring me to doc.
yes, my new nix is miss lamey.
G.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfsgXe24cqk&feature=response_watch
hv i share this with you guys?
i have a thing with acoustic, just like i have a thing with guys wearin white shirt. 🙂
point aside.
this version always earned a smile from me, anytime, anyday.
njoy.
– G
dont you just hate it when someone perceived you as the poor little kitten or something?
god ! i totally dislike it !
yes, there are times i need pple to coodle me but there’s still a limit.
the way to deal with me is – simply listen .. hear me out, that all i wanted. no, tat what everybody wanted ! pls, when i say that i’m fine. its a full stop, not a comma for further questioning.
thanks for your concern and all but please dont look at me as if the word ‘fragile’ is stamp on my forehead. yes, i looked soft and weak but trust me, i am stronger den the average joe.
actually, most of us are – when you’re left with no choice.
ms chan shared with me.. her sister used to be afraid of cockroaches and friends, but now tat she’s a mother of two, she gotta be the brave one to protect her little ones.
unlike ms chan’s sister, i dont need to be brave for anyone. yeap, okie, brave for myself.
so, what make you think tat i will break into pieces.
in fact, it this helpless feeling that gave me the strength to be strong.
– found this in my draft !
*woah i’m no longer upset la but decide to go ahead and publish this.
interesting read.
– G
question posed over lunch by ms chan:
if you can choose any career, what will be your choice?
(note: anything and everything goes)
are you ready for my ans?!
pilot. not just a plain commercial plane pilot but a fighter pilot.
either i shoot pple or pple shoot me kind. haha !
challenging?
dream big pple.
– G
you need both trust and distrust for any form of relationship
– hear this sentence recently.
trust
– i’m not one who suspect anyone who come my way, i trust everyone to be nice. i’m nice to you and you will be nice to me sorta thinking.
– this world is so filled with doom and gloom, which i dont like.
– by nature, i’m a trusty and warm person.
naive? maybe.
but i rather be on this side of the fence den going on thinkin that everyone is a mean & selfish person. i think that’s a tiring way of living. i choose to believe in the goodness of pple.
distrust
according to kor – his theory is believing that everyone cannot make it. he have zero expectation of pple around him. super prejudice yet his argument being – it easy for pple to impress him, since he starts with zero, just a little action on your part and he will be super impressed.
i’m not that extreme. i do have basic expectation of pple.
but whenever pple did what is expect of them. i’ll make a mental note ‘hey, this person is trustable/reliable’
90 / 10 – ??
i’m still someone who will give you 100% trust. you dont have to cross the grand canyon to gain my trust. but like everyone else, dont break the trust – it wont be easy to get it back.
woah. whats with this entry?
sucha simple sentence and i could write paragraph of tots outta it.
groove the philosopher. groove master of bullshit.
G.
red? hehe !
but i love the colour.
‘groove’ as the background;
‘groove’ as the profile;
welcome msg ‘groovy’
miss groove
🙂
whatsup?!
interesting.
mr lee and i were analysing what sorta woman suit my kor.
mr lee’s view – soft yet tough, must be smart enough to control my kor and smart enough to act dumb.
my reply – and to play the victim once awhile, so tat my bro can rescue her. thats what all man needed ! haha ! actually that the feelin YOU gave me when i first know you ! you wanna ‘save’ me, izzit?! actually i dont even noe whether i need rescuing?!
we both laughed.
laughter aside.
generally speaking, i guess its true.
i dont want to be stronger or tougher den my man, that’s his job.
but i cant be weak all the time either, he cant be a everyday hero – that tiring.
i cant be more capable den him, it gotta put him down – ego’s tinky.
as a smart woman, we do need to act dumb once awhile to make our man feel good. life is abt comprising !
well, it easier say den done. but generally speaking – i’m good at this. coz i am dumb ! what do you expect? i could write sucha entry, what make you think i’m a smart woman.
*wink
– G
the old me: whenever i’m upset abt something.
i will raise it up immediately. we have an issue, i’m unhappy, i’m piss off – lets talk things out. right here, right now.
the new me: whenever i’m upset abt something.
i choose to keep quiet, even though i might have a bunch of of bitchy comments roamin in my head. i reckon its better, i dont wish to say anything to destroy the relationship. you can apologize, buy flowers, go the extra mile but words spoken cant be retrieve. i refuse to adopt the an-eye-for-an-eye-method, expect the other person to put himself or herself in my shoes. i choose time out and think abt it, work on best solution, but eventually i will talk abt it.
pple are super impressed at my ability to keep things inside until i figure out my next move. its not a necessity skill but i seen the benefits in doing so.
this is the mature me talking. the immature me dumbly choose inappropriate moments to talk things out .. aka monday morning. haha ! okie, i will work on choosing the right moment, right methods, right words for the right pple. arent i a right person? :p
G.
‘girly yet with a masuline easiness’ – jen
woah. tats how she describe me.
mmm.
okie, agreed with her.
i’m not a girlie-girl.
i cry easily (kor cant stand that!)
i love soft toys, i love cute stuff but i dont go crazy over them.
i cant fix the lamp but i can give it a shot sorta person.
i cant carry heavy stuff but i can carry the small plastic bag.
you wont use sweet to describe me but you will use sweet to to describe my actions.
i have lotsa tots but you can read me like an open book.
i’m hardworkin in school but i only own a pen.
i own several bags but none have umbrella in them.
i love my nails but i bite them.
i need someone to dote on me yet i dont wanna rely on a man. keke !
here’s the last trait – i’m not a goody two shoes but you wont use bad girl to define me. haha !
sound like one /confused / complicated girl.
well, its a girls tink.
go figure. keke !
– G
ha!
other den the usual having someone to talk too blah blah blah.
having a twins means you get to pretend = pretend to be her.
on the train the other day and i saw a old friend.
my tots: shld i smile? shld i go over and do my friendly act? but will i ever talk to him again even if we exchange contact? do i really care what he’s be doin for the past 10years? i’m sure he dont give a damn abt my life either.. so…
conclusion: okie, time to pretend i’m minhui.
the old friend glance my way a few times and i just pretend pretend, gave him the ‘do-i-know-you-look?’
why am i like that? you ask the right qn.
the reasoning: please read the above paragraph again. u will find the reason.
funny mr lee. he felt tat having a twins mean double exposure in school. pple sees more of me den they see other invidual person.
love his lame description.
– G